What Is He Thinking??

What Is He Thinking??

What Guys Want Us to Know About Dating, Love, and Marriage

In WHAT IS HE THINKING??, Rebecca interviews a range of men from high-profile types to the guys next door, men that every woman can relate to. Although the interviews focus on single guys ages 20-35, Rebecca also includes words of wisdom from older mentors she respects who have been successfully married for years, such as her dad, life coach, and pastor.

The men share their thoughts on topics like how women can respect themselves and the men in their lives, modesty, purity, taking it slow, friendship, letting guys lead, and more. This book gives them the floor to say what they would really like women to know.

The men respond candidly to questions like:

  • What is the most attractive quality to you in a woman?
  • Is modesty truly attractive?
  • Is neediness a turn-off?
  • What do you find beautiful?
  • How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you?
  • How can we help you with boundaries physically?
Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.
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Genre: Mind, Body, Spirit / Religion / Christian Life / Relationships

On Sale: September 26th 2011

Price: $14.99

Page Count: 176

ISBN-13: 9780446572675

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"I invite you to read my friend Rebecca's book What Is He Thinking?? With humor, honesty, and genuine curiosity, Rebecca writes about dating and her experiences interviewing single men. A must read for every girl who is wondering where all the good guys have gone."—Sean Hannity, talk show host
"I totally LOVE this book. These true stories-of young women who are sold out to God and willing to take on whatever He calls them to-just blew me away. Besides actually making me cry, it also challenged me to look more deeply into my own life and calling. I seriously recommend this book to anyone who truly wants to serve God. Really, Sister Freaks is awesome!"—Melody Carlson, author of Diary of a Teenage Girl and the True Colors series
"Purely encouraging! This book will purify and liberate readers' lives. Rebecca St. James shares her faith walk with clarity and passion and gently invites us to join her."—Donna VanLiere, New York Times and USA Today bestselling author, on Pure
"Rebecca St. James (Sweet Bec) is truly God's champion for her generation and beyond! I see firsthand her passion to live her life God's way and encourage others to join her on this mission. The pure truth of her heart shines through every page!"—Evie Tornquist Karlsson, Christian musician and spokesperson for Back to Jerusalem Missions, on Pure