Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way

A Guide to Letting Go of the Sh*t that's Holding You Back

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By MJ Harris

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  1. Audiobook Download (Unabridged)
  2. ebook $15.99 $20.99 CAD
  3. Hardcover $30.00 $39.00 CAD

It ain’t easy being grown—this life shit is hard.
Hugely popular social media personality MJ Harris is the go-to person for over four million viewers across YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram, for hilarious, straightforward, raw advice about everything you need to know about getting your sh*t together in life—whether it’s fixing your relationships, situationships, money or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to get out of your own way.
This book is a guide to getting rid of the emotional trash and trauma you’ve been sitting on for years. No one ever taught you how to properly handle the hurt and anger you’ve experienced in your past, so bet your ass Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way will. To change your life, what’s gotta change is your mindset.
If any of this sounds like you, this book is for you!
  • Your relationships (or lack thereof) aren’t fulfilling
  • You’re alive but living an unfulfilled life
  • Your work life is in a rut and you can’t find your way out of it
  • Your money just isn’t where you want it to be 
  • The toxic people in your family think you’re somehow their permanent emotional punching bag
  • You’re a “people pleaser” that has not yet learned how to effectively say no
MJ Harris’ tells it like it is in a book of no holds barred principles that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma and transform into a pillar of emotional wholeness. From boundary setting with family to fairness in romantic partnerships, MJ makes it abundantly clear that when your inner life flourishes, your outer well-being flows.
Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way is the confidence booster you need to make better decisions and to set you on the right path for a satisfying, happy life once and for all.


  • “I’ve been blessed to witness the kindness and realness of MJ Harris.  His honesty about his own life is the beautiful reason you can trust him to help you get yours together!"—Tabitha Brown
  • “Refreshingly authentic, occasionally outrageous, and always looking out for your best interests, MJ Harris has a bold vision for how much better your life will be if you could just get the f*ck out your own way. Lucky for you, he also has the wisdom and experience to help you do it, plus a gloriously unfiltered, potty-mouthed monologue that’ll keep you nodding and laughing along the way.”—Sarah Knight, New York Times bestselling author of Get Your Sh*t Together and Grow the F*ck Up
  • “MJ gets you together from a place of love! His no nonsense approach is want we need to get out of our own way!”—Michelle Williams, author of Checking In

On Sale
Jan 9, 2024
Hachette Audio

MJ Harris

About the Author

Malcolm “MJ” Harris is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise and is the CEO and founder of the MJ Harris Financial Group. As a hugely popular social media personality, MJ shares his secrets to relationship empowerment and financial freedom with global audiences across YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram, helping people transform their spiritual, professional, and love lives. He currently lives in California and South Africa.

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