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My Father's Wake

My Father's Wake

How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love, and Die

Death is a whisper in the Anglo-Saxon world. But on a remote island off the coast of Ireland’s County Mayo, it has a louder voice. Along with reports of incoming Atlantic storms, the local radio runs a daily roll of ordinary deaths. And the islanders go in great numbers, often with young children, to be with their dead. They keep the corpse and the bereaved company through the long hours of the night. They dig the grave with their own hands. It is a communal triumph in overcoming the death of the individual.

In this beautifully written narrative, Kevin Toolis gives an intimate, eyewitness account of the death and wake of his father as he explores the wider history and significance of the Irish wake. With an uplifting, positive message at its heart, My Father’s Wake celebrates the spiritual depth of the Irish wake and asks if we can find in it a better way to deal with our mortality–by living and loving as the Irish do.
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Genre: Nonfiction / Biography & Autobiography / Personal Memoirs

On Sale: February 27th 2018

Price: $13.99

Page Count: 288

ISBN-13: 9780306921452

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Praise

"As a boy, he learned to kiss the corpse at a traditional island wake. As a filmmaker and witness to death in many conflict zones around the world, Kevin Toolis has written a profound book on the culture of grief and death, placing the personal alongside the political in a vivid exploration of our ancient ways of coming together around the dead. This is a moving family story, a memoir of loss and exile, a deep understanding of what makes us alive, casting a cold eye on what is precious and so often denied."--Hugo Hamilton
"A heartwarming and very personal account of a life well-lived."--Irish Times