The Wind at My Back

Resilience, Grace, and Other Gifts from My Mentor, Raven Wilkinson

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By Misty Copeland

With Susan Fales-Hill

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From celebrated ballerina and New York Times bestselling author Misty Copeland, a heartfelt memoir about her friendship with trailblazer Raven Wilkinson which captures the importance of mentorship, shared history, and honoring the past to ensure a stronger future.

Misty Copeland made history as the first African-American principal ballerina at the American Ballet Theatre. Her talent, passion, and perseverance enabled her to make strides no one had accomplished before. But as she will tell you, achievement never happens in a void. Behind her, supporting her rise was her mentor Raven Wilkinson. Raven had been virtually alone in her quest to breach the all-white ballet world when she fought to be taken seriously as a Black ballerina in the 1950s and 60s. A trailblazer in the world of ballet decades before Misty’s time, Raven faced overt and casual racism, hostile crowds, and death threats for having the audacity to dance ballet.

The Wind at My Back tells the story of two unapologetically Black ballerinas, their friendship, and how they changed each other—and the dance world—forever. Misty Copeland shares her own struggles with racism and exclusion in her pursuit of this dream career and honors the women like Raven who paved the way for her but whose contributions have gone unheralded. She celebrates the connection she made with her mentor, the only teacher who could truly understand the obstacles she faced, beyond the technical or artistic demands.

A beautiful and wise memoir of intergenerational friendship and the impressive journeys of two remarkable women, The Wind at My Back captures the importance of mentorship, of shared history, and of respecting the past to ensure a stronger future.




It’s only in trying and keeping going that you achieve, you can’t expect that it’s all going to happen for you just because you’re out there pointing your toes nicely. You have to open your mind and heart, and you must believe in yourself and have faith and hope.


On an unusually cold evening in late March, I nestled on my couch with my feet up after a long day. I caressed my belly to soothe my growing son, who was in a restless mood, kicking up a storm. With his “grands battements,” he seemed eager to let me know he wanted to “get out” and see the world, and I certainly couldn’t wait to meet him. I lay back, eating sunflower seeds—my favorite snack as a child had become somewhat of a comfort food now that I was an adult. As I cracked open the salty shells, I wondered if my son would enjoy them like I had with my dad. Already, I was assessing the world around me, from the smallest, most ordinary items, like my favorite snack, to the largest challenges, like the state of the justice system and the destruction of the environment, in terms of how they would affect him. Like I imagine most mothers who are expecting do, I fantasized about introducing my child to my many loves that make life beautiful: music, from Mariah Carey to Beethoven, Japanese gardens, and Marius Petipa ballets. But I also worried about the realities of bringing a Black boy into the world—exposing him to the war, racism, and inequality that are part of our current reality. I am so grateful to have an incredible partner in parenthood, my husband, Olu.

Even though our nation had made so much progress, and the reckoning in the wake of the murder of George Floyd had brought so many honest conversations to the forefront, like countless Black mothers before me, I nursed high hopes and huge fears about what the future held for my boy. Who would my son be? What would he want to become? Would he find himself one of only a handful, a “rare” and highly scrutinized few in the field he was most passionate about? Would doors be open to him, or would he have to break them down with the help of so many others who had tried before him? I couldn’t help but think of my own journey to being “the first” Black female principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre. I wanted his path to be smoother, but in the pit of my stomach, I grappled with a deep anxiety that it wouldn’t be.

That night, I didn’t feel like reading or binge-watching a favorite series. The Senate hearings for the confirmation of Supreme Court nominee Ketanji Brown Jackson were in full swing. I wanted to witness history in the making, so I turned on C-SPAN to see what I’d missed that day.

Judge Brown Jackson sat calmly at the table, her hands neatly folded before her, maintaining her composure as questioner after questioner sought to paint her as “soft on child pornographers” in her sentencing practices, interrupting her as she attempted to answer, and distorting her record beyond recognition. She never raised her voice; she never lost her temper in a situation in which any normal human being would have been justified in exploding. I watched her in one moment literally swallow her outrage and take a breath before responding evenly and respectfully with well-reasoned facts. I believed I knew what kept her centered. As I watched her sit there stoically, taking everything that was thrown at her, I imagined she was thinking: “I’m the first. I’m in the room. Many fought for me to be here. No one said it would be easy. There are those who are determined to see me live up to every stereotype of the emotionally undisciplined angry Black woman, and I won’t. This is bigger than just me.” It was the same act of will that enabled my mentor, Raven Wilkinson, the first Black ballerina with the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, to take the stage in Atlanta, Georgia, in 1957, mere hours after being thrown out of the “whites-only” hotel where the company was staying and relegated to the “Colored” hotel on the other side of town. I felt in my bones the courage and emotional discipline that it took for Judge Brown Jackson to sit in that Senate chamber, the portrait of dignity. There was nothing to be gained by “going off.” Part of the price of being the “first” is taking the body blows and keeping your eyes on the prize. Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson sat alone but stood for so many. She stood for everyone who had striven to break a barrier and reach the pinnacle in a country that for most of its history has relegated African Americans and other people of color to second-class citizenship.

Since the founding of our country, we African Americans have had to petition for the recognition of our full humanity, let alone equality. Like every Black ballet dancer I knew, I’d experienced the discounting of my abilities purely based on the refusal to see Black people as equals, capable of succeeding in traditionally “European” art forms. Throughout our careers, we were confronted with people who doubted that we “belonged” and saw us as unworthy of practicing the art form in which we’d trained for most of our lives.

From the time a serious practice of ballet was first brought to the United States by Russians fleeing the Revolution, Black dancers had aspired, like other Americans, to learn this classical dance form. Long before Arthur Mitchell founded the Dance Theatre of Harlem in 1969, in the wake of the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., there were the American Negro Ballet and the New York Negro Ballet. When white conservatories wouldn’t accept students of color in Washington, DC (a common form of discrimination in dance schools across the country), two courageous Black women, Doris W. Jones and Claire H. Haywood, founded the Jones-Haywood Dance School in 1941. Back then, and even at times still today, Black ballet dancers have been told it is not “our” art form, that our bodies and technique are not “refined” enough. Why were white people born in America, who hadn’t danced ballet before it was introduced to this country in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, any more qualified to dance it than Black people were? Ballet quickly became yet another wedge to divide the people of our country and the world into the “civilized” and the “uncivilized,” the “true citizens” and the “outsiders.”

Throughout my career, like so many other Black dancers, people have wanted to push me toward modern dance, which is considered freer, “wilder,” and therefore more suitable to someone of my heritage. Yet my dream was ballet from my first class at thirteen, wearing gym shorts on a basketball court at the Boys and Girls Club of San Pedro. It was the dream of Erica Lall, Courtney Lavine, Aesha Ash, Tai Jimenez, Janet Collins, Céline Gittens, Marion Cuyjet, Delores Browne, Virginia Johnson, Alicia Graf Mack, Joan Myers Brown, Anne Benna Sims, and my mentor, Raven Wilkinson. Like Raven, several of the ballerinas I mentioned were first exposed to the art form when their parents took them to a performance of the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, the most famous touring company of the thirties, forties, and fifties.

People sometimes dismiss the performing arts as peripheral, a nonessential luxury, and yet our national identity is defined in part by our culture. To be marginalized from a culture is to be marginalized from citizenship. The pandemic, and more recently, the war in Ukraine have reminded us of the vital role the arts play in asserting our common humanity. Whether it’s Tony Award winner Brian Stokes Mitchell singing from his balcony on the Upper West Side every night in the depths of sheltering in place during the pandemic or pianists playing for arriving Ukrainian refugees as they crossed the Polish border, such artistic expressions of empathy may not have saved lives, but they restored hope by reminding us of our capacity to create remarkable beauty in the midst of suffering.

As I finished watching the Supreme Court confirmation hearings, I was filled with a sense of sorrow. One senator had waxed nostalgic about the “good old days,” when a white male nominee had been peacefully and uneventfully confirmed in a matter of hours… back in 1798. Then a right-wing pundit demanded that Judge Brown Jackson produce her LSAT scores to prove her worthiness. Clearly, in spite of the progress that her nomination is supposed to represent, the racial hierarchy and the coded language that reinforces it are still very much alive. Black Lives Matter becomes as much a question as a statement when we read the news and witness the continuing verbal and physical brutality against Black people.

On that March night, I felt the anxiety of every Black parent who wonders how to teach their child to reach for the sky, that anything is possible, when some still don’t believe you deserve to even be “in the room.” I felt the anxiety that all parents feel about the state of the world and the particular fear of Black mothers for the actual physical safety of their sons. Over the years, I’ve learned to look to lessons from the past to help answer questions about the future. So, in this moment I called upon the spirit of one of my guiding lights, Raven Wilkinson, the first Black woman to receive a contract with a major ballet company—in 1955, when full-on discrimination was actually legal in the United States.

Reflecting on Raven’s remarkable journey and undefeatable faith and optimism reminded me that the source of power and dignity that Black Americans have cultivated over four hundred years is stronger than any racist theory: our tradition of the elders mentoring the young, both within families and with “chosen family.” Because there are so many barriers left to break, we are completely dependent upon one another, and the person on whose shoulders we stand owns our “firsts” as much as we do. Whether in medicine, law, business, politics, or the arts, our elders’ sacrifices and suffering were the down payment on our opportunities, and therefore our triumphs are their triumphs. What one generation begins, another finishes.

Opera singer Camilla Williams, the first Black woman to sing a lead role at the New York City Opera, paved the way for Marian Anderson’s debut at the Metropolitan Opera twelve years later. Thanks to actress Diahann Carroll, who was the first Black woman to star in her own network series, Kerry Washington, Tracee Ellis Ross, Viola Davis, and dozens of others now routinely star in successful shows and films. Constance Baker Motley, the first Black female federal judge, forged a path for Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson, the first African American female Supreme Court justice. Alvin Ailey founded a groundbreaking interracial American dance company. At his request, former dancer Judith Jamison took over for him and made it one of the most successful dance organizations in the world. Anne Raven Wilkinson, who became the first Black ballerina in the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, among others, created a path for me. My journey would have been impossible without her career, her example, her love, and her friendship. I would never have become the first African American female principal dancer with American Ballet Theatre, America’s national ballet company, without her. She passed away in the winter of 2018, but I carry her with me every day and in all that I do.

Raven taught me through her example that, as they say, “When and where I enter, the whole race enters with me” is not just a burden and a pressure, but it offers the promise of possibility. Once we break a barrier or shatter a glass ceiling, we make it possible for other dreamers to enter the space that once excluded us and thrive. Raven’s teachings have given meaning to every plié I do and every performance I give. She showed me that we dance for all those who came before us and the many who will hopefully come after us. She held my hand through the ups and downs of my career. In her own life, she kept her head high through the “one step forward, two steps back” dance of civil rights in our country. And in spite of all she endured, she never surrendered to bitterness. Of all the gifts Raven gave me, one of the greatest was the gift of hope.

Some dreamers never get to meet their heroes and inspirations. How lucky I was to travel an important part of the road of life with mine. In Raven’s spirit of love and generosity, I share our story.

Raven was and remains “the wind at my back.” For all those dreaming an “impossible dream,” I hope you find the wind at yours.



It’s 6:47 p.m., and beads of sweat drip down my face before dropping to the studio floor. It has already been a long day of back-to-back rehearsals, which began at noon, preceded by daily ballet class. My muscles ache, my tired feet feel cemented in my pointe shoes, and my mind is racing with anticipation. It is the worst possible luck to have the last rehearsal of the day, scheduled from 6:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., when all I can think about is this evening’s event. But right now, at this very minute, my focus must be on landing atop my partner’s shoulder, arms crossed and chin high in the air, as if I hadn’t a care in the world.

I finished rehearsing the pas de deux as the Milkmaid, a featured role in the ballet The Bright Stream, and quickly glanced up at the clock looming above the mirror on the far wall of Studio 1 at 890 Broadway, American Ballet Theatre’s rehearsal home in New York City. I had exactly forty-three minutes to shower, change, and make it uptown for a meeting I would later realize I’d waited my entire career for. Kevin McKenzie, our artistic director, and Alexei Ratmansky, the artist in residence choreographing the piece, huddled, speaking in hushed tones. We, the dancers, never knew if they were dissecting our performances or analyzing the steps of a particular sequence. Either way, the minutes ticked by as my eyes darted back up to the clock. I hoped my impatience wasn’t too obvious. Disrespect for the process is not appreciated in a ballet company, especially one of ABT’s international stature. Whether you are in the corps de ballet, a principal dancer, or like me at the time, in the middle, a soloist, you are meant to show gratitude for being part of this hallowed organization, not sit around grumbling and tapping your pointe shoes if they keep you in rehearsal until 7:00 p.m.

That attitude check is top of mind for the very few dancers of color. At that point in 2011, there were three of us in a company of eighty. I couldn’t exactly say, “Hey, Kevin, Alexei, can we move this along? I’ve got someplace else to be.” Especially then. Still striving to reach the rank of principal, it was as important as ever that I demonstrate my commitment to ABT and its process. And I always did… I just wished that I didn’t need to demonstrate that enduring loyalty tonight.

I held my breath as Kevin and Alexei marked steps together. Were they going to ask me to start again? Was Alexei choosing this moment to make adjustments to the choreography? 6:50. I shook the tension out of my shoulders. This was the life I had chosen. It was not just a career; it was a calling. There’s no crying or complaining in ballet… at least not in this current predicament. I had to focus. And at least my hair was done, swept up into a sleek ponytail. I could do my makeup in the cab.

After two more minutes that stretched on like hours, Alexei turned to us and said, “Thank you, dancers. We’ll pick this up again tomorrow. Nice work.” I was so relieved. My entire body relaxed. I nodded and smiled. Then, instinctually, I waited just one more beat to see if they had any specific notes to give me. Thankfully, Kevin and Alexei turned back to each other to continue their conversation. I ran to the side wall, grabbed my bag, and raced through the hallways to the shower, like Cinderella running out of the ball as the clock struck midnight. I got to the dressing room. 6:55. I had just enough time to shower and make it uptown. When you grow up in a family of six children, you learn to shower and dress in three minutes flat.

7:01. I was out on Broadway and Nineteenth Street, sweating and makeup-less, but showered and looking for a taxi. I saw a bright yellow light and hailed. Thanking God, I slid into the back seat. “144 West 125th Street, please,” I said. My luck was turning. As we drove past the majestic Beaux-Arts buildings lining that stretch of downtown Broadway, I rolled down the window to breathe in the beautiful May evening breeze. This was always my favorite time of year in New York: the balmy weather, glorious sunsets at seven, and the anticipation of ABT’s Metropolitan Opera House season. The season after which promotions were announced. It always felt like a time of possibility.

I pulled out my makeup bag to transform myself from rehearsal-disheveled “bunhead” to something approaching presentable. It was getting dark, so I turned on the light. My tiny compact mirror wasn’t ideal, but after so many years of being on the road, I could apply makeup in the dark.

In a New York minute my luck turned upside down, when I looked away from my compact to see the traffic conspiring against me. Madison Avenue was a disaster. We slowed to a crawl. The lights changed, but we barely moved. It was 7:15, and we were only at Forty-Second Street. How would I ever make it to 125th Street by 7:30? And I’d wanted to arrive early. Should I jump out and head toward the subway? I wondered. No, the station was too far east. I’d have to run, the train would be jam-packed at this hour, and I’d have to let two pass before finding one I could get on.

7:19. Nothing to do but sit back and pray. Even if I was late, the evening was still happening. We caught a break after Sixty-Fifth Street. Traffic cleared. “Could you go just a little bit faster?” I urged the driver. And he obliged, speeding up the avenue. Miraculously, within eight minutes, we arrived at 144 West 125th Street, the five-story home of the Studio Museum in Harlem. I paid the fare and jumped out of the cab.

I pushed the glass doors open and entered the foyer. To my left, I saw a crowd of one hundred or so people sitting in the museum’s atrium auditorium, waiting for the program to begin. In the back I spotted my friend Alek Wek, a South Sudanese supermodel, and Olu, my then ex-boyfriend. He smiled in his warm way and waved. He knew how much this evening meant, and he’d taken the time to come even though we were no longer together. That meant a lot. I turned around to see my manager, Gilda Squire, and a member of the museum staff who welcomed me. Gilda grabbed my dance bag as they rushed me to a side room, and there she stood: five foot two but with the spirit of a giant, the woman I’d unknowingly been searching for my entire life, the woman who’d made my way in classical ballet possible, Raven Wilkinson.

Tears immediately filled my eyes. I was overcome with emotion. As soon as I saw Raven, everyone else’s face and voice faded away, and I could only focus on her. Raven beamed as I approached her, her smile as bright and warm as the sun. She hugged me. Her embrace felt like coming home. She grasped my hands and said, “I’ve waited so long to meet you. I’ve followed your story since you were fifteen and won the Music Center Spotlight competition. You are exquisite.” That was one of the greatest accolades of my life. To hear that a woman who’d blazed the trail for me, a woman I revered, had been watching my career since the beginning made me feel seen and affirmed as nothing else ever had. It was like receiving a blessing. I couldn’t believe it. I had to repeat what she said in my head. Raven Wilkinson, a pioneer, had been watching me. I had found my fairy godmother.

We could have stood there all night expressing our mutual adoration, but Gilda politely yet firmly said, “Ladies, we can continue this later. The panel discussion needs to begin.” Walking arm in arm, Raven and I stepped out onto the little platform to begin our first “performance” as a duo, and the friendship that would become my North Star.



The first time I encountered Raven, a year earlier, in the spring of 2010, was much less eventful than that incredible night at the Studio Museum in Harlem.

I was unwinding from an eight-hour rehearsal day in my Upper West Side apartment. Sipping a glass of prosecco and finally taking a moment to exhale, I decided to watch a DVD of a dance documentary given out to company members at ABT titled Ballets Russes. It tells the story of the two famous ballet companies that were among the first to bring the European art form of ballet to the United States. But for me, this documentary gave me so much more. I was introduced for a few brief moments to the story and legacy of a woman who nearly sixty years earlier was on the same path I was currently on as a Black ballerina: Raven Wilkinson. Little did I know that a quiet evening at home watching a ballet documentary would quite literally change my entire outlook on my life and career.

At this point I had been a soloist with ABT for three years. This meant that I had been promoted from the corps de ballet, the group of sixty hardworking dancers who framed the solo artists and created the atmosphere onstage. With this promotion came dreams of what more the future might hold for me, but in truth, these hopes seemed nothing more than fantasy when faced with the sobering history of the lack of diversity in ballet and ABT specifically. Having joined ABT’s Studio Company in 2000 and ABT’s main company in 2001, I was the only Black woman in the company for the first ten years of my career. And there hadn’t been another Black female at ABT for decades before me. For me, the bleakness of looking forward made looking backward that much more necessary. I was searching for inspiration in a history that I hoped existed but I had not yet found.

After six years of dancing the role of one of the peasant girls celebrating the harvest in Giselle, as a townsperson of Verona in Romeo and Juliet, and one in a really, really long line of swan maidens in Swan Lake, I now danced only featured roles. Just one other African American woman had ever reached that level with the company, Anne Benna Sims in the 1970s. And, ironically, I hadn’t learned about her until after I was promoted. It seemed as if the stories of other Black ballerinas, including Ms. Sims, had been erased or forgotten. I never heard anyone speak about her. As the second Black woman soloist in ABT’s seventy-one-year history, I wanted to live up to that responsibility and honor.

As a dancer you’re forever a student, and as the saying goes, only as good as your last performance—and that meant constant preparation, onstage and off. So, during my subway rides to and from company class and rehearsal, I’d listen to the music of the ballets I was rehearsing. And on many nights, I watched videos to see some of the world’s best dancers, past and present, dance iconic roles I hoped to perform one day. Natalia Makarova as Nikiya in La Bayadère. Alessandra Ferri as Juliet in Romeo and Juliet. Paloma Herrera as Kitri in Don Quixote. Nina Ananiashvili as Odette/Odile in Swan Lake. All of them were spectacular dancers. All of them were white.


  • “In warm, plain-spoken prose, Copeland details Wilkinson’s bravery . . . This book is a generous, sincere love letter to Wilkinson, who died in 2018, but it’s also a love letter to liberation . . . This bighearted memoir is an antidote to that marginalization.”—New York Times
  • "Anyone lucky enough to have seen Misty dance knows the perfect balance of power, grace, joy and purpose that pours out from her. She’s no less wonderful a writer. This story of Misty and her muse, idol and mentor, the inimitable Raven Wilkinson, is a beautiful love letter and an inspiring tribute."

    Amanda Seyfried, actress
  • "Having a contemporary ballerina tell the story of one of the great pioneers of our art form and bear witness to their mutual love and respect is so moving. I laughed, I reminisced, I cried….A definite must read!!!”—Lauren Anderson, Associate Director of Education & Community Engagement and former principal dancer at Houston Ballet
  • "What a courageous, authentic, and heartfelt story of the beautiful friendship between Misty Copeland and Raven Wilkinson, the ballerina who broke barriers in the 1950s with the Ballet Russe. Through the support of her mentor Ms. Wilkinson, Mrs. Copeland finds her deeper calling in paving the way for other black and brown dancers to fulfill their dreams in the art of ballet and beyond. Their story is truly inspiring."—Susan Jaffe, Artistic Director Designee at American Ballet Theatre
  • “Misty shares her story, as well as Raven’s, with a transparency and authenticity that invites readers to join her in navigating the ballet world as a Black woman. She guides us through the struggles but leaves us with hope and beauty.”—Darren Walker, president of the Ford Foundation
  • "Copeland celebrates her mentor’s wisdom as she shoulders the burdens and thrills of her historic career, and aims to inspire other dancers of color who face similar barriers as they pursue their passions . . . The strength that Copeland found in Wilkinson is moving, and she renders it gracefully throughout. This is an inspiring and insightful account.”—Publishers Weekly
  • "A candid, instructive reflection on artistry, dedication, and race."—Kirkus Reviews
  • "These pages are a heartfelt tribute to Wilkinson, who passed away in 2018, and an acknowledgment of her remarkable life and career. Copeland has gracefully accepted the challenge to continue to improve dance—and humanity—in honor of Wilkinson and all those who follow her.”—Booklist
  • "Balletomanes will enjoy the book’s blow-by-blow accounts of Copeland’s mold-breaking performance of Swan Lake and of Wilkinson’s interactions with dance luminaries like Alicia Alonso . . . An accessible read that will surely be popular with Copeland’s many fans."—Library Journal
  • "A love letter . . . infused with grace, both inside and out."—Miami Times
  • "A beautiful memoir that captures the friendship between Copeland and Wilkinson, and shares the impact that their stories continue to have on the world of dance."—Town & Country
  • "What’s beautiful about this memoir is seeing how these two women developed an unbreakable friendship . . .  5 out of 5 stars." —Black Girl Nerds

On Sale
Oct 3, 2023
Page Count
240 pages

Misty Copeland

About the Author

Misty Copeland is a principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre and the author of the New York Times bestsellers Life in MotionBallerina BodyBlack Ballerinas, and the children’s picture book Bunheads, as well as the award-winning children’s book, Firebird. She made her Broadway debut in 2015’s On the Town, putting a show that had reportedly been suffering financially for months into the Broadway box office top ten for the two weeks that she guest starred as Ivy Smith. She’s been featured in the New York Times and on CBS Sunday Morning and 60 Minutes, and she was named one of Glamour’s Women of the Year and Time magazine’s 100 most influential people. Misty is the recipient of the Young, Gifted & Black Honor at the Black Girls Rock! Awards and the Spingarn Medal, the NAACP’s highest honor.

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